An Open letter to Sports Administrators, Coaches and Parents
After officiating thousands of youth, high school and college soccer, hockey and lacrosse games for over two decades, I am writing with a warning of impending failure and collapse of our current interscholastic sports model.
We are at a tipping point, as our senior officials are rapidly aging out in many of these popular sports. Our current efforts to recruit new officials have failed to keep up with the number of retiring senior officials for a number of reasons.
Here are the facts:
1. Senior officials are rapidly aging out.
2. Recruitment and retention of new officials is not at pace with retiring officials.
3. Fewer officials means fewer games.
4. No officials mean no games.
Here is the cause and effect:
1. Poor sportsmanship and inappropriate behavior by coaches, parents and players.
2. Marginal compensation.
3. Lack of organizational leadership and accountability at the clubs and high schools.
As the lead for recruiting new officials in hockey, soccer and lacrosse for the past several years, I have met with, talked to and reached out to hundreds of potential candidates. The number one response I get is “Are you crazy? You guys get treated like sh..t!” There it is. Perception becomes reality and often the truth.
If the athletic field is an extension of the classroom then why is poor behavior tolerated in our youth sports? As adults we need to ensure that all participants, including game officials, feel safe and are protected from unreasonable and inappropriate behavior. In other words, a “safe space” to compete, perform and grow for all involved. Unfortunately, that isn’t the case today.
I would like to offer the following ideas toward a working solution.
1. Establish a written zero tolerance with an accountability process from the top down.
2. Require signed contracts from coaches, players and parents acknowledging a written code of conduct.
3. Enforce stiff penalties for violations of the code of conduct, including suspension, fines and banishment.
4. Establish consistent training and mechanics for officials of all sports on effective ways to deal with sportsmanship related issues.
We are at a tipping point and we need action. Radio ads or recruiting posters are not effective in recruiting new officials. We need to stop the yelling and berating of our kids, coaches and officials. This is not tolerated anywhere but the sports field, and it is degrading and defining sports today.
Let’s take action, support our state motto and lead the nation by holding coaches, players parents and officials accountable for their behavior on and off the field. This ensures a safe space for everyone who participates in our sports. Our future depends on it.